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January 2003
Last Update Jan 21, 2020

A New Year's Message from the President

Guys and Gals,
I'd like to wish each of you a healthy, happy and prosperous 2003. I would also like to thank those members who responded to the Association's call to service and have expressed interest in the one of the vacancies on the Board. There is still time to offer your talents and time as a member of the Board as Vice President, Secretary, or Public Relations, or Rodeo Events and Training Chairs. In addition to these vacancies, we need to appoint our Rodeo Director for Stampede 2003. If you are willing to offer your services, please contact our Membership Chair Mike Sanders or me as soon as possible. Simply email us at either or and we'll do the rest.

Despite the vacancies, the Board has been very busy since elections. The budget proposal for 2003 was approved for submission to the members and was presented at the December General Membership meeting. Because the Board values an informed and involved membership, a special mailing was produced to keep everyone abreast of the 2003 budget proposal. Please take a few moments during your Holiday "down-time" to review and respond. Our Treasurer Scott Smiley has done a superb job, both in revising our chart of accounts to make it more readable and user-friendly, and by carefully crafting a budget proposal that supports growth while remaining fiscally responsible. JR Key, our Social and Entertainment Chair, has been busy establishing his committee and, in addition to ramping up for Hoedown 2003, is working on a comprehensive hotel contract proposal for Stampede 2003 and beyond. The contract for the Fairgrounds arrived on December 23rd and will be reviewed at the January 9th Board of Directors meeting. As a reminder, the Board adopted the second Thursday of the month for its 2003 meetings. Check the website for the exact location. As usual, the meeting starts at 7:30 PM and members are always welcome!

The Board is fully engaged in the Association's work and remains committed to producing the best Hoedown and Stampede celebrations possible. Make one of your New Year's resolutions to help ASGRA though a personal commitment to share more of your talent and energy with us in the coming months. Again, my very best wishes in the New Year!

Gaither Pennington, President


"Have old memories but young hopes."


Greetings all!
Another year is underway and there is much to be done. We have several events scheduled for this year and you can be part of the fun and planning.

Ever wanted to be in the parade, not just watching and cheering from the sidewalk? Consider being part of the ASGRA contingent in one of the many Pride Parades this year.

Also coming in June…Hoedown! is scheduled for June 14th at the Baltimore Museum of Industry. Tickets will be on sale soon. But long before the party can happen, we need help in setting up, advertising, etc. (Contact J.R. Key for more information on all of these events.)

The January General Membership and Budget Meeting will be held on Sunday January 26th. We are meeting in the upstairs of Mr. Henry's. Meeting time 4:00pm. We have the room reserved beginning at 3:30pm, so come and get a seat and a beverage so we can start on time.

Have you been to the web page lately? Cowboy Frank has been working hard at keeping it updated with all the goings-on within ASGRA and IGRA. One of the newest additions is in the membership section. Not only can you renew your membership online, but now your friends can join online as well (with a credit card).

A reminder of your current ASGRA member benefits:

  • 10% discount at Carol's Western Wear;
  • No cover charge on Friday or Saturday nights at Remington's;
  • An average of 27.5% discount on Avis rental vehicles for business or personal use; (Use code T-238399)
Other member benefits are in the works.

As your Membership Chair, I serve as your liaison to the board. If you have issues, concerns or questions, please don't hesitate to bring them to my attention. I can be reached by email at or by phone at the number listed in the sidebar of the newsletter.

Remember to keep check on the web page for all the upcoming events and announcements.

Mike Sanders, Membership Chair

A Membership Fun Fact:
The membership of ASGRA spans 11 states and is 23.14% female.


Keeping Country Dance Alive In Baltimore!
Two-step and Country Waltz Dance Lessons with Instructor Mary Anne
Waxter Center Cathedral and Eager St.

Jan. 9: Two-Step
Jan. 23: Two-Step
Feb. 6: Two-Step
Feb. 20: Two-Step
March 6: Two-Step
March 20: Waltz
March 27: Waltz
April 3: Waltz
April 17: Waltz
May 8: Waltz
May 22: Waltz
June 19: Graduation Party

Classes on Thursdays, 7:30 to 9:30 $5 per lesson, $50 for all twelve classes

DID YOU KNOW…..
Stage I (formerly the Stagecoach) has brought back Country-Western dancing to Baltimore on Saturday nights! In addition they have their Reunion Tea Dance on the second Sunday of every month. Check it out!


ASGRA Board of Directors 2003 & Committee Chairs

President: Gaither Pennington 133 Tull Place Alexandria, VA 22304
Vice President: TBD
Secretary: TBD
Treasurer: Scott Smiley 21 Welbeck Ct. Montgomery Village, MD 20886
Membership: Michael Sanders 7401 Eastmoreland Rd. #228 Annandale, VA 22003
Fundraising & Sponsorship: Mark Baker 1437 Rhode Island Ave., NW #403
Public Relations: TBD
Rodeo Events & Training: TBD
Social & Entertainment: JR Key 1317 Rhode Island Ave. NW #103 Washington, DC 20005
Newsletter Editor: Lonni La Bel 11422 Waterbury Way Germantown, MD 20876

ASGRA Royalty 2003 & Committee Chairs

Web Master: Frank Harrell

IGRA Trustee: Michael Lentz 4602 Coachway Drive North Bethesda, MD 20852
Publications Chair: Billy Collison 18600 Walkers Choice Rd. #5 Gaithersburg, MD 20886-0539
BHT Representative 2002: Bruce Forchheimer 1535 9th St NW Washington, DC 20001-3207
CAB Representative 2002: Patrick Hunter 410 15th Street, NE #26 Washington, DC 20002
Mr. ASGRA 2003: John Alvey 2298 17th St., NW Apt. #7 Washington, DC 20009
Miss ASGRA 2003: Miss Courtney Lovelace (Sam Marsh) 2298 17th St., NW Apt. #7 Washington, DC 20009


News 'Round the Corral

"Happy Trails To You!"
Remember, ASGRA trail rides are the first Sunday of the month at 11:00am!
Weather permitting, we will be holding a trail ride at Piscataway Ranch in Clinton, MD at 11:00 am on the following days: January 5th: Start the New Year in the company of your ASGRA friends, both human and equine! February 2nd: Warm things up for Valentine's Day with a romantic ride in the wintery Maryland woodlands! For further information and to RSVP, contact Glenn at (703) 538-2225.

2003 IGRA Rodeos
RoadRunner Regional: Rodeo 2003 AGRA Phoenix, AZ January 17-19, 2003
Cowtown Rodeo 2003: TGRA Fort Worth, TX March 28-30, 2003
Bighorn Rodeo 2003: NGRA Las Vegas, NV April 4-5, 2003
L.A. Rodeo 2003: GSGRA Los Angeles, CA April 11-13, 2003
Rodeo in the Rock 2003: DSRA Little Rock, AK April 25-27, 2003
Great Plains Rodeo 2003: OGRA Oklahoma City, OK May 23-25, 2003

A Reminder to IGRA CONTESTANTS:
It is your responsibility to keep IGRA informed of address, phone, and email changes. You can update your information with them at http://www.igra.com/address.html


ASGRA 2003 Budget
The Board has devoted a great deal of time in recent months to preparing the Proposed 2003 Annual Budget. It has been sent to the entire membership along with a mail in ballot for those who are not able to attend the January 26th meeting in person. It is imperative that all members vote on this important issue so that the Board knows whether or not it has the authority to spend funds in 2003. Currently, there are several items pending such as deposits to reserve our dates for Stampede 2003 that cannot be acted upon until a quorum of the membership has voted. Please make sure your voice is heard. Please contact Treasurer Scott Smiley at with any questions related to the proposed budget.

Mike Sanders, Membership Chair


The Social & Entertainment Committee is seeking creative, energetic people to help plan an exciting social calendar for ASGRA in 2003. Our goal is to provide a variety of social events for the ASGRA membership throughout the year. We are limited only by having willing volunteers to help suggest, plan, and host events. Whether you can commit a few hours each month or only have time to help out with one or two events that interest you, your participation is welcome.

If you've got a skill or talent that you can offer, the Social & Entertainment Committee wants you! If your main talent is a willingness to pitch in, we want you, too! The S&E goal for 2003 is to involve as much of the ASGRA membership and the country western community as possible, whether you volunteer to help or just come out and enjoy socializing at the events. S&E is about having some fun and building a sense of community among our members. Join us for the fun!

Some of the events planned or suggested for 2003 include:

  • Couples / Line Dance / Team Dance competitions
  • ACM and CMA Awards Night parties
  • DC, Baltimore and NYC Pride events
  • The Hoedown at the Baltimore Inner Harbor
  • A murder mystery dinner party
  • Social hours after General Membership meetings
  • Sunday morning Brunch socials
If any of these events interest you, or if you have ideas to share, contact the Social & Entertainment chair, J.R. Key (see our contacts page)

JR Key, S&E Chair


Followup from the Defenders and Ed Moore on the Toy and Food Drive held December 6-8, 2002:
On behalf of all the organizations involved in "A Child's Heart" toy drive, Thank you! Because of your help we were able to raise $7,074 for Joseph's and Miriam's House as well as another $1,600 that was earmarked to buy specific toys for Pediatric AIDS. We collected enough toys for almost 70 kids at Pediatric AIDS and gave the Mayor over 500 toys for his toy drive. Also we collected 10 cases of food for the Whitman-Walker Food Bank and 17 bags of clothing for the area missions.

The "Children's Heart Award" was brought into being in the year 1999 as a way of recognizing those who care not only during the holidays but throughout the year. The first recipient was Black Rose; the second, the DC Boys of Leather. This year's winner was the Crucible, and the award was given in honor of their support for the entire leather community. It was very richly deserved!

For more information on Joseph's House and :Miriam's House


ASGRA Calendar of Events

January 2003

5 11:00am Trail Ride at Piscataway stables, Clinton, MD
8 8:00pm BHT Meeting; DC Eagle; Washington, DC
9 7:30pm ASGRA Board Meeting; Capital Hilton
15 8:00pm CAB Meeting; DC Eagle; Washington, DC
26 4:00pm General Membership Meeting; Mr. Henry's on Capital Hill; 6th and PA, SE (upstairs)

2003 ASGRA Meeting Schedule Membership Meetings
January 26
February 23
March 23
May 18
July 27
August 24
September 21
October 19

Board Meetings
January 9
February 13
March 13
May 8
July 10
August 14
September 11
October 9

February 2003 issue: Submissions due: 1/20/03, Mail out date: 1/27/03


Tips for "Multi-User" Trail Riders

By ASGRA member Ken Withers

Not all of us in ASGRA are accomplished rodeo athletes, believe it or not. While we all love the sport and may even find ourselves in the arena occasionally, I would venture to say that most of us are more comfortable participating in the trail rides or stomping around the horse farm. We're certainly more comfortable afterwards. But trail riding is not a no-brainer. It is a skill, different from the skills needed in the arena. Any of us who ride horseback on public multi-user trails, where we can encounter cyclists, backpackers, roller-bladers, joggers, and even whiteface-painted mimes, knows how valuable multi-user trail riding skills can be.

There are good reasons to ride on multi-user trails. Public equestrian-only trails are few and far between, and using private trails can become an expensive (or unlawful) habit. Public multi-user trails, on the other hand, are all around us. They are usually longer, more scenic, and offer a wider variety of outdoor experiences. As more railroad, canal, utility and riparian rights-of-way come into the public domain, more multi-user trails are being constructed. It's not a practical use of limited public resources to build exclusive bridal paths or even double-wide trails with separate lanes for separate uses. And for many of us, the simple fact that the trail is multi-user is a plus in and of itself--that may be the very reason we're on a pubic trail.

But everyone has a horror story, or a friend of a friend with a horror story, of an unfortunate confrontation with a mountain biker or backpacker resulting in multiple injuries, permanently spooked horses, and large insurance settlements.

Cowboy Biker, Courtesy International Mountain Bicycling Association Professional park managers can cite statistics showing that such incidents are rare, and nearly all that do occur could have been avoided if the participants, human and equine, had some better training. Dr. Roger L. Moore, Associate Professor of Parks, Recreation and Tourism Management at North Carolina State and a leading expert in trail management, doesn't believe that there are fundamental trail use conflicts at all, and no reason to ban or segregate any reasonable trail use. Based on his exhaustive studies, Dr. Moore believes that trail conflicts should be viewed as user behaviors that interfere with other users' reasonable goals and expectations.

Of course, trail user conflict management is a two-way proposition, even (or especially) if the trail is single track. Equestrians, cyclists, backpackers and other users all have rights and responsibilities, and the chief responsibility is to have the skills and common sense to avoid conflicts whenever possible. So here are some trail riding tips for equestrians, followed by some reasonable expectations we should have of cyclists and backpackers.

Equestrians should understand their horses.

Some essential facts to always keep in mind are:
  • Horses recently descended from animals that roamed and grazed open savannas. They are not naturally comfortable in a confined space, like a narrow trail through the woods or mountains, unless they are familiar with it.
  • Horses have an incredible range of vision (340 degrees), but are colorblind and have limited depth perception. A cyclist or a backpacker appearing for the first time in peripheral vision could look like a big scary monster.
  • The horse's best natural defense is flight. Given a decent head start, no natural predator in the world, lions and cheetahs included, can catch them. Bolting and running is their instinct, when threatened. The horse's second line of defense is to kick, but only when it feels cornered or restricted when threatened.
When approached by a cyclist or backpacker:
  • Audibly greet the approaching user and maintain eye contact whenever possible.
  • Slow the horse to a walk and move to one side of the trail, giving the cyclist or backpacker ample room to pass. If the trail is on a hillside, move your horse to the uphill side and give the downhill side to the cyclists or backpacker.
  • In a friendly manner, audibly or visually indicate to the other trail user that they should slow down and move to the opposite side of the trail.
  • Do not encourage the trail user to approach or pet your horse unless everyone is at a dead stop and the horse is quite calm.
  • If the horse is calm, use your own judgment to allow visual, audio, and tactile contact. In the long run, it is much better to have your horse get used to the sight of bicycles, helmets, backpacks, and walking sticks. It's good for the other users, too, who are often afraid of horses. This is also a sure-fire way to get a date with a cute cyclist.
When being overtaken by a cyclist or backpacker:
  • Once you are aware that a cyclist or backpacker is approaching you from behind, slow to a walk and move to one side of the trail.
  • If possible, establish audio or visual contact with the other user and indicate that you want them also to also down and move to the opposite side of the trail.
  • It is usually not necessary to stop your horse, unless the users behind you are not slowing down or are particularly distracting (for example, a gaggle of noisy mountain bikers).
  • Consider the protocols listed above in regards to user contact with your horse.
What to expect from experienced, responsible multi-use trail users:
  • Cyclists should know to slow down and yield when approaching an equestrian from either direction.
  • Backpackers and cyclists should make their presence known, especially when approaching a horse from behind. Voice is better than bells or horns.
  • All users should know not to physically approach a horse without permission of the rider.
  • ATV users should know to move to one side of the trail and shut their engines down when approached by a horse, and to never attempt to overtake a moving horse and rider on the trail
  • Users have a reasonable expectation that the horseback rider knows the horse and what he or she is doing.
And finally, some ideas for achieving world peace:
  • Consider bringing carrots on your next trail ride. If you allow your horse to snack at all (another issue), you might want to toss a carrot to a friendly hiker or cyclist and ask that they feed the carrot to your horse. If your horse begins to think of other users as potential sources of snacks, he or she will be much easier to handle. Some mountain biking clubs have "carrot days," where they bring sacks of carrots to give to horses they encounter on the trail.
  • In California, a cycling club called Responsible Organized Mountain Pedalers holds an annual trail ride with an equestrian club. The event is called "ROMP and Stomp" and is quite popular.
  • In Tennessee, the Blue Ridge Riders equestrian club got together with the local chapter of the Sierra Club and a cycling club to produce a safety flier that is distributed across the state. Elsewhere, equestrians and other trails users are involved in joint trail maintenance projects and even hold horse/cycle "rodeo" events.
A few years ago Clemson University sponsored a national symposium of horse trails. One of the speakers, Michael Kelley of the International Mountain Bicycling Association, summed up his presentation by saying, "Both equestrians and cyclists can … learn to withstand just about anything-even each other, despite often heard protestations to the contrary…. We share the wonder at what we are able to experience on our chosen steeds. We love the beauty of the outdoors and the joy of life we breathe as we travel through wild lands. We revel in sports which require exquisite balance and self-control, and which inherently involve a certain amount of risk and exposure to injury should we loose our balance or control of what's under the saddle. We get saddle sores and sore backs. The more time we devote to our respective sports, the more likely we are to put every spare dollar into it. We grow attached to our mounts, give them names, groom and maintain them. We relish the wind whistling in our ears from a swift run along an open trail…. So take a cyclist to lunch."
For more information:
Appalachian Mountain Bike Club, Blue Ridge Trail Riders, Inc., and Harvey Broome Group of the Tennessee Chapter of the Sierra Club, "Meeting a Horse on the Trail: What to Do,"
http://www.serversolutions.com/ambc/brochure.htm

Michael Kelley, "Bikes and Horses: A Case for Sharing,"
http://www.imba.com/resources/bike_management/clemson_horses.html

Roger L. Moore, "Conflicts on Multiple-Use Trails: Synthesis of the Literature and State of the Practice,"
http://www.mountainbike.co.nz/politics/usa/conflicts/conflicts.html


About the author:
Ken Withers is a "Silver Spur" member of Atlantic States Gay Rodeo Association, a life member of the League of American Bicyclists, and was recipient of the East Coast Greenway Association's first Lifetime Achievement Award for his trail advocacy efforts.


Photo Credit
Cowboy_biker - Photo courtesy International Mountain Bicycling Association http://www.imba.com
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